Most people are carrying lots of past baggage with them wherever they go! Yes it can be very tiring and definitely not good for your health!
What is past is past, there in nothing you can do about it, it is gone, it is water under the bridge. You cannot change the past, you can only do what is best for you right now to create a great future.
Most people are still living in the past and not able to forgive others, they dwell on their regrets and keep on thinking of what could have been!
You got to get a hold on yourself and look at yourself eye to eye in the mirror. First, start with yourself, learn how to forgive yourself by telling yourself, "I am sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you."
We all have made mistakes in life, all have sinned. Jesus made it very clear when the men and women were ready to stone the woman who committed adultery.
"When they continued to question Him, He straightened up and said to them, “Whoever is without sin among you, let him be the first to cast a stone at her.” And again He bent down and wrote on the ground. When they heard this, they began to go away one by one, beginning with the older ones, until only Jesus was left, with the woman standing there." - John 8:7-9
"Then Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are your accusers? Has no one condemned you?” “No one, Lord.” she answered. And Jesus said, "Neither do I. Go and sin no more."
- John 8:10-11
One of the factors that stop people from achieving success in network marketing is the baggage of the past weighing them down.
Forget your bad experiences because if you live in the past with bad experiences, you'll carry negative energy with you and people are sensitive to energy, they know how you feel.
People are attracted to people who are positive, who have no baggage of the past weighing them down, who are enthusiastic and believe in what they are doing!
Many companies and leaders conduct a two-day leadership training or a 2-day program to empower and inspire you to become a better person and do the right things. I highly recommend you attend such training and programs.
Good judgement comes from experience and experience comes from bad judgement. Learn from the past and move on. Yes you can learn from your mistakes and learn to forgive yourself and others.
"To err is human and to forgive is divine!"
In network marketing, you will see the good, bad, ugly and funny! It is a people business and not everyone will play by the rules. There are bound to be black sheep in every industry.
There will be malpractices such as misrepresentations, exaggerations, product dumping, poaching, persuading or helping downlines to switch lines for selfish reasons, etc.
If you have been hurt in any way by such bad practices, let go and move on. You cannot change the past, you can only learn from it and learn to forgive others who have wronged you.
I've been in this business for 23 years and I had my fair share of betrayals, poaching, switching of my downlines and product dumping by other "black sheep leaders", I've learned to let go and forgive.
Great companies will have their compliance department to look into poaching and product dumping and if members are found guilty of it, their business will be terminated.
Just have the right intentions and do the right things and all the good forces in the world will gather together to help you to be successful!
Love, Learn, Leverage and Live Your Dream!
Bruce Seah
Asia No.1 Home-Based Business Coach
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